E-TIDBIT OF THE DAY: Thank you

Thank you  is  another   couple    of   words  that   is extremely  important  in American culture. Whenever you  receive  what  you  have  requested,  you should always  say  thank  you.  This  term  is  music  to the American ear.

It is another term which becomes part of the vocabulary of the American child from a very early age. It is a courtesy used everyday in the home. It shows politeness and consideration for the person who is giving you something, even if it is unsolicited by you. This term cannot be overused, just like please (see the previous Nov. 2/14 post).

Examples of the appropriate use of thank you:

• Thank you so much for coming over for dinner!
• Thank you for joining our team for this project.
• We want to thank you for your participation in this seminar.
• Thank you so much for hiring me!
• Thank you! (when someone opens a door for you)
• Thank you! (when someone tells you they like a piece of your clothing)
• Thank you! (when someone gives you a compliment on your appearance)
• Thank you for buying our product.
• Thank you for choosing to fly with us! 
• Thanks for the gift!

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• Thank you for being so efficient in your work.
• Thank you for not talking in class.
• Thank you! (when you ask for juice at the table which is out of your reach)
• Thank you for not smoking.
• Thank you for your cooperation!
• Thank you for the directions (to the beach).
• Thank you! (when the immigration officer hands you back your passport)

I think you get the idea. It may seem like a subject that is a given, however, there are cultures that rarely use the word thank you. Americans will notice if you don't use it and possibly get offended. So, this distinction of American culture is important to mention for those visiting the USA or dealing with American expatriate colleagues and friends. Americans will love you for using thank you.

You are on your way to speaking impressive American English!